I don't know what to write. I don't know how honest to be?
I think I'm depressed. I'm finding it very difficult to sleep, concentrate, think, or function.
I'm also finding it very difficult to write a post. I've started several different posts, and just can't come up with something to say. Maybe I shouldn't wait until bedtime to write posts? Maybe if I had slept well in the last little while but that's not working very well either.
Last night because I was feeling sad and melancholy, I listened to Raffi, the Canadian's Children's singer. I grew up listening to Raffi, and when I was nanny for my nephew I listened to Raffi with him. I know the songs off by heart, and they have a way of making me smile.
So last night, I thought of listing to Raffi, even though I didn't have a child with me. I tweeted about wounding if it was a little weird for an adult to listen to Raffi without a child alongside, and Raffi himself tweeted back saying "go ahead". I did and it did make me smile.
Song's like "Mr. Sun", and "5 green and speckled frogs", still make me smile.
And I think I'll do that again tomorrow, while doing another children's activity: colouring. Adult colouring books, are the "in" thing, and it relaxes. I think tomorrow I'll try doing it while listening to children's music: Raffi.
Is that too weird? But then again, even if it is, what difference does it make, if it makes me happier?
....
Update:
After I wrote this, but before it was scheduled to post, I got a video of Raffi on youtube, and listened to it, while colouring an adult colouring book. I sang with the songs, listened to the children laugh, and at times laughed along with them. It cheered me up, and made me happier. Now I'm going to go to bed, and I won't be so melancholy when I do.
Thanks Raffi.
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Sunday, 3 January 2016
Friday, 4 December 2015
Comparing Apples and Oranges?
You can compare apples and oranges, and don't let any one tell you, you can't.
Apples are red, green or yellow. Oranges are orange or green.
Apples may or may not be pealed before eating. Oranges always need to be peeled before eating.
Apples have cores. Oranges do not.
Apples can't be eaten with braces. Oranges can be eaten with braces.
Apples are not naturally sections. Oranges are naturally sectioned.
See. I just compared apples and oranges, and I could go on if I wanted to.
When a person tells you "that's comparing apples and oranges", what they really mean is "shut up I don't want to hear that reasoning", and what they are really thinking is "darn, you've got a really good point that I can't answer, so I'm going to shut you down and direct the conversation in a direction that will make me seem superior."
Don't let somebody else do that. If you want to say something. Say it. If you want to believe something believe it. Don't let anybody else shut down your line of thinking or conversation. You have a right, to believe think and say what you want to, even if it is comparing apples and oranges.
Because...
Apples don't have pulp. Oranges do have pulp.
Apples are red, green or yellow. Oranges are orange or green.
Apples may or may not be pealed before eating. Oranges always need to be peeled before eating.
Apples have cores. Oranges do not.
Apples can't be eaten with braces. Oranges can be eaten with braces.
Apples are not naturally sections. Oranges are naturally sectioned.
See. I just compared apples and oranges, and I could go on if I wanted to.
When a person tells you "that's comparing apples and oranges", what they really mean is "shut up I don't want to hear that reasoning", and what they are really thinking is "darn, you've got a really good point that I can't answer, so I'm going to shut you down and direct the conversation in a direction that will make me seem superior."
Don't let somebody else do that. If you want to say something. Say it. If you want to believe something believe it. Don't let anybody else shut down your line of thinking or conversation. You have a right, to believe think and say what you want to, even if it is comparing apples and oranges.
Because...
Apples don't have pulp. Oranges do have pulp.
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